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How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 21.06.2025 07:01

How does one succeed in life?

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

What I need from you?

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Do people really have sex with animals?

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Why am I attracted to older men?

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

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Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Do not set goals—set systems.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

I’ve a dismissive avoidant partner who said that he’s overwhelmed by our relationship and that he wants to break up, how do I get him back?

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Why are there so many illegal Haitians in Ohio? They can't walk here. Democrats flew them here to cause chaos and crime in Ohio.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

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Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Making more friends is a goal.

What would have happened if Shin was a good movie instead of a bad one?

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

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However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Why do people keep complaining about how some people copy and paste the question before answering it? To me, it's very disturbing and makes me want to block and mute them as annoying whiners.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

What was your first impression of The Carter V by Lil Wayne? Did it feel like 2008 Wayne, when you heard the first few songs.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Why aren't U.S. prisons more like Marine Corps boot camp, were every second of the day there are mandatory activities so that at night everyone is so tired they go to sleep until wakeup at 5:30 am? Would this make prisons safer for all?

Procrastinates a lot.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Why won't my mom let me come home if I'm homeless?

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Does not procrastinate.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Why do wives cheat with black guys?

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

What is the worst thing your sibling has done?

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Ask yourself:

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Hangs out with loser friends.

That's it for today.